<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553</id><updated>2012-01-20T06:39:11.297-08:00</updated><category term='cooking'/><category term='mentoring'/><category term='women'/><category term='calm'/><category term='influencing'/><category term='change management'/><category term='team building'/><category term='recession'/><category term='communication skills'/><category term='stress'/><category term='comedy'/><category term='Health and Safety'/><category term='johari'/><category term='webinar'/><category term='personal effectiveness'/><category term='metaphors'/><category term='music'/><category term='paradoxes'/><category term='teams'/><category term='public speaking'/><category term='middle management'/><category term='leadership'/><category term='creativity'/><category term='motivation'/><category term='drums'/><category term='conflict'/><category term='sussex'/><category term='personal development'/><category term='presentation skills'/><category term='Brighton Science Festival'/><category term='business coaching'/><category term='management development'/><category term='coaching'/><category term='stories'/><category term='questions'/><category term='manual handling'/><category term='training'/><category term='difficult behaviour'/><category term='management'/><category term='presentations'/><title type='text'>Growing People in Business</title><subtitle type='html'>The BLOG for JamBerry Ltd. Experiential training, mentoring and coaching for people in business.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>50</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-4505118000638125710</id><published>2011-12-07T05:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-07T05:59:58.093-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mentoring'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentation skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='public speaking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Ways to Design Stories For Business and Presentations (part 3)</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;This is the third in a series of posts about designing stories for business and presentations. Stories are so important because, done well, they evoke emotion.&amp;nbsp;And as John Medina explains in Brian Rules:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;  &lt;em&gt;"&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;When the brain detects emotion the amygdala release dopamine into the system - aids memory and information processing. "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;1.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Create a picture association. People relate to pictures in very different ways to words. Pictures can be absorbed and read at very different levels. There has been a lot of study to look at people's eye movements in relation to pictures and which elements of a picture they go to first. &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;2.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Create a word association. If the important part of a story is to get people to remember particular points then using certain key words that evoke an emotion each time they are used can be very powerful. If for example you have 3 key concepts that you need to get across, can they be reduced to simple words or phrases and how can you build a story around them?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;3.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Start at the end. A trick often used by Hollywood. By starting at the end and then going back to provide an explanation of how the characters got there.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;When, Where, What, Who, Why, How? Ask these questions and fill in the gaps. Goes well with no. 5&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;5.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Use Mind Maps. If you haven't used Mind Maps before then learn how to do so. They are great for creating ideas and then finding the links. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;6.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;List of characters, emotions, place, time. This is another way to find different elements of a story.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;7.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Look at storylines of films/books/TV and substitute different elements. Most stories have already been written. Whether it is in great classics or soaps, stories remerge, reworked and with new names but often the same outcomes. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;8.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Create a journey. Most stories are about journeys from A to C via B. They are journeys of discovery about self, about others, about power and frailty, about selfishness and selflessness. It is the settings that change.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;If you would like help finding your stories, get in touch.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-4505118000638125710?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/presentation_skills.htm' title='Ways to Design Stories For Business and Presentations (part 3)'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/4505118000638125710/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=4505118000638125710' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4505118000638125710'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4505118000638125710'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/12/ways-to-design-stories-for-business-and.html' title='Ways to Design Stories For Business and Presentations (part 3)'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3668726403371627849</id><published>2011-12-06T06:43:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-06T06:54:53.690-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stories'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='public speaking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Creating Your Own Stories for Business and Presentations</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Looking to create stories for your business? Stories are so powerful as they combine emotion, action, heros and villains and can really bring your business and presentations to life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;To start with you need to ask yourself aseries of questions.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 20pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;◦&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;What is the goal of your story? What do you want to happen as a resultof telling your story?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 20pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;◦&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;What’s in it for the audience? Why should they be interested? Why is itimportant that they listen?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 20pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;◦&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;How much do they already know? If an audience is new to an area, howcan you make your story simple enough to introduce them to a brad concept whenthey don't have the detail? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 20pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;◦&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;What do you want your audience to spontaneously recall? What do youwant people to walk away with? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;That the lemon wasorange? (ie not what they first thought.) &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;That the product isfun? (ie: it makes them smile when they think about it.) &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;An image of the brightred balloon? (ie. a specific picture.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;It made me sad, but happy? (ie. a specific emotion)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt; A shocking fact (one that is difficult to shift from your mind)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: 0cm;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 20pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Verdana; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;◦&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;Where is the best place to use your story in the presentation? &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;The beginning - tocapture attention and make sure that they have got the gist. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;The middle - torecapture attention.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 79.1pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-list: l0 level2 lfo1; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Courier New&amp;quot;; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;o&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;The end - to leavethem with an emotional feeling to remember.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;People's attention span is short. So usingstories at strategic points cannot only be used to create contrast,&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;evoke emotion, explain difficult topics well,but it can also bring people's attention back to your narrative.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;Have fun with them!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3668726403371627849?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3668726403371627849/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3668726403371627849' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3668726403371627849'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3668726403371627849'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/12/creating-your-own-stories-for-business.html' title='Creating Your Own Stories for Business and Presentations'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-2918386766731145334</id><published>2011-12-05T03:21:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T03:42:33.193-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='influencing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mentoring'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentation skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='metaphors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='public speaking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Using Stories in Business</title><content type='html'>&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Using Stories in Business&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;I recently watched a comedian strutting his stuff on stage and was struck by his ability to tell a simple story and have the audience respond with gales of laughter. What was it he was doing that was so successful? After all he was only telling a story about buying Christmas presents with his wife. The trials and tribulations, the misunderstandings, the ultimate denouement and the punchline. The story itself was very simple and ordinary but what he was doing was very clever. He was tapping into other people's perceptions and experiences and turning them on their head. Like most great comedy, it was taking the ordinary, making it extraordinary and evoking emotion along the way. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;For centuries we have used stories to pass on information. But in much of modern business life we have forgotten how to use them effectively. This is particularly true when it comes to presentations. We all know that there are millions of presentations made every day, the majority of them less than riveting. So what can you do to stand out from the crowd and make you presentations really memorable?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stories Stick&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;But why are stories so powerful? The impact of stories lies in the fact that they provoke emotion which is known to be a major influencer in maintaining interest and memory retention.&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;The brain processes meaning before detail. So starting your presentation with a story so that people get the gist of what you are going to say and then going into the detail improves both concentration and understanding. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;It provides a series of hooks on which to hang further explanation. So you can refer back to the story and say "so when the comedian said....the audience rocked with laughter!"&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;By adding relevant stories at suitable intervals throughout the presentation it is possible to introduce new ideas and spark new interest and re-engage through emotion at a point when the attention might be flagging.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;So next time you create a presentation, try starting with a &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;relevant&lt;/i&gt; story. It doesn't have to be funny unless you are confident that you can make people laugh. If you can't immediately think of one, pinch a story line from somewhere else such as a movie or a fairy tale. Just make sure you create a relevant link.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-outline-level: 1;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-font-kerning: 12.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Want to find out more about creating stories for presentations or training? We provide story telling coaching to help you find your own stories. &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-2918386766731145334?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk' title='Using Stories in Business'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/2918386766731145334/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=2918386766731145334' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2918386766731145334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2918386766731145334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/12/using-stories-in-business.html' title='Using Stories in Business'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6111293103587568802</id><published>2011-11-01T08:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-18T08:39:39.378-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sussex'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='difficult behaviour'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='calm'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stress'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Stress - The 7 C's</title><content type='html'>&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stress - The 7 C's&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;In time for National Stress Awareness Day, here are the 7C's behind Stress and what you can do about them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 1 - Poor&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;COMMUNICATION&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Poorcommunication leads to misunderstanding, missed opportunities, bad feeling.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Assertivecommunication helps deal with these. Learning &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;good communication skills can help you at workand at home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 2 - Lackof &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;CAPABILITY&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l6 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Ifyou have not been trained to do a job then is it fair to expect you to do itwell?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l6 level1 lfo5; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Giveyourself the best possible chance to do well by getting the best possibletraining for the job in hand.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 3 - Too little &lt;em&gt;CAPACITY&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo7; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Not having enough capacity to deal with day-today issues can lead to a sense of&amp;nbsp;overwhelm which can be overpoweringand cause you to want to give up or walk away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo7; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;This may be a case of needing to review yourwork life balance or getting yourself organised.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo7; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;It may be the case that you need to learn how tosay "No." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo7; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Symbol; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Make sure you review where you are in your life,the things you want to keep and the things you want to walk away from. Now workout a plan to do just that. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 4 - Lossof &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;CONTROL&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Peopleget stressed about a situation because they feel out of control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Differentpeople react in different ways to loss of control and will use differentstrategies to &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;get back to a level ofacceptable control for them .&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l4 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Learninghow you react to loss of control and the strategies that you use, can help youto understand what you might do differently. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 5 -Dealing with &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;CHANGE&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Manypeople don’t like change and get very stressed as a result.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Thefirst steps to dealing with change is to accept it is inevitable and then dealwith the consequences rather than the fact itself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l5 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Learnto embrace change so it doesn’t scare you as much.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 6 -Resolving &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;CONFLICT&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;For those of us who don’t likeconflict, it can be a major source of stress. Learning to deal with it can be amajor benefit. There are many ways of dealing with conflict, dependent on yoursituation. Here are a few: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;1.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Don't take the bait.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;2.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Consider the underlying causes. Is it obviouswhy someone is upset?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;3.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Pause before you react. This will give youthinking time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Check your own behaviour. Is it part of theproblem?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;5.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Listen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;6.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Acknowledge that they may be correct in part oftheir concern.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;7.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Be willing to negotiate if appropriate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;8.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Remain assertive.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;9.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stay in adult.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;10.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Look forwarning and danger signs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;11.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Checkyour distances.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;12.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Avoidcompeting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;13.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;ThinkWin/Win.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;14.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Beprepared to deal with emotion and anger.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;15.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Be aware,be alert. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 6pt 35.7pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo4; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -17.85pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;16.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;Know yourlegal position. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Stressor No. 7 -Dealing with a &lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;CRISIS&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Weall have to deal with crisis from time to time, whether it is personal or atwork. Knowing how you are likely to react will help you plan on how to dealwith things in the future. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Crisescan hit us at anytime. Illness, a death in the family, divorce, bad debt.Unfortunately they are all too common. And can really knock you for six whenthey happen. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l3 level1 lfo6; tab-stops: list 36.0pt; text-indent: -18pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-list: Ignore;"&gt;•&lt;span style="font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Ifyou are dealing with a crisis, make sure that you have the support mechanismsin place to help you as much as possible,. This might include medical and legalprofessionals, friends and family, a coach or counsellor.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Want to find out more about how you can manage stress moreeffectively? Here are some useful links:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: black; font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 7.5pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B005I4YBE4/ref=as_li_ss_til?tag=midastrainingsol&amp;amp;camp=2902&amp;amp;creative=19466&amp;amp;linkCode=as4&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B005I4YBE4&amp;amp;adid=0WCN8B9YK72M3NS4T7Z2&amp;amp;&amp;amp;ref-refURL=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.jamberryonline.co.uk%2Fbooks1.html" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue;"&gt;De-StressYou&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;- Kindle Version&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.pansophix.co.uk/index.php?ref=41&amp;amp;affiliate_banner_id=29"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;"&gt;UsefulGuides from Pansophix&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt; including: &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em&gt;AUseful Guide to De-Stress You,&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;A UsefulGuide to Resolving Conflict, A Useful Guide to Create a New You&lt;/em&gt; -&amp;nbsp;by &lt;em&gt;BerryWinter&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;For Stress Coaching - &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.jamberry.co.uk/coaching/coaching_home.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;"&gt;http://www.jamberry.co.uk/coaching/coaching_home.html&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;For a variety of online products - &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.jamberryonline.co.uk/index.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;"&gt;http://www.jamberryonline.co.uk/index.html&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6111293103587568802?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6111293103587568802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6111293103587568802' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6111293103587568802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6111293103587568802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/11/stress-7-cs.html' title='Stress - The 7 C&apos;s'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-7527739090505240293</id><published>2011-07-19T03:18:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T03:29:21.467-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='difficult behaviour'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Managing Conflict - CUDSA</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"&gt;When&amp;nbsp;you are in a conflict situation, in the heat of the moment&amp;nbsp;it can sometimes be difficult to remember what to do.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;There are a number of acronyms that may help you to remember. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;The first is:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"&gt;CUDSA&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;C&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;onfront the behaviour&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;U&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;nderstand each other's position&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;D&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;efine the problem&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;S&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;earch for a solution&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"&gt;gree&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table border="1" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="MsoTableGrid" style="border-collapse: collapse; border: currentColor; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-yfti-tbllook: 1184;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr style="mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-irow: 0;"&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border: 1pt solid windowtext; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 14pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Arial,Bold&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;"&gt;Activity&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Explanation&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: windowtext windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: solid solid solid none; border-width: 1pt 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 14pt;"&gt;Example&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 1;"&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Arial,Bold&amp;quot;;"&gt;C&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"&gt;onfront   the behaviour&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Concentrate on the   behaviour not the person. Ask then to modify their behaviour so that you can   talk about the issue.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;I   feel uncomfortable when you say xxx. Please can we discuss this calmly so   that we can get to the problem.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 2;"&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Arial,Bold&amp;quot;;"&gt;U&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"&gt;nderstand   each other's position&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Take the time to understand   the other's position. Is it a real issue, or is it based on misunderstanding?   Have you got all of the information, or only part of the story? Respect their   position and ask them to respect yours.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Please   tell me slowly what you think the issue is. Please then listen to my reply.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 3;"&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Arial,Bold&amp;quot;;"&gt;D&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"&gt;efine   the problem&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Get into the detail,   but try not to react by becoming defensive, sulking, aggressive or other   negative behaviour. Repeat back to the other party, your understanding of   their side of the story. Stay in adult.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;I   understand that you feel ..., and that you have an issue with ..., and that   the reason behind this is ... Is this correct?&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;My   position is&amp;nbsp;...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 4;"&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Arial,Bold&amp;quot;;"&gt;S&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"&gt;earch   for a solution&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;This involves   cooperation. Search for a win-win solution wherever possible. &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;The best solution is one where each party   feels that they have gained at least part of their point if not all.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;I   suggest that I will&amp;nbsp;agree to&amp;nbsp;...&amp;nbsp;if you are happy to give me&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; ..&lt;/span&gt;. This way we both gain something   positive. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr style="mso-yfti-irow: 5; mso-yfti-lastrow: yes;"&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext; border-style: none solid solid; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Arial,Bold&amp;quot;;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;"&gt;gree&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;Get an agreement -   even if it is an agreement to differ.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;   &lt;/span&gt;Make sure any agreement is stated clearly and unambiguously. If necessary,   write it down. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;   &lt;td style="background-color: transparent; border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0) windowtext windowtext rgb(0, 0, 0); border-style: none solid solid none; border-width: 0px 1pt 1pt 0px; mso-border-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-left-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; mso-border-top-alt: solid windowtext .5pt; padding: 0cm 5.4pt; width: 154.05pt;" valign="top" width="205"&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Verdana&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;In   these (...) circumstances, I agree to ... and you agree to ... If things substantially   change then we will review this agreement.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/td&gt;  &lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-7527739090505240293?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.behavemasterclass.com' title='Managing Conflict - CUDSA'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/7527739090505240293/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=7527739090505240293' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7527739090505240293'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7527739090505240293'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/07/managing-conflict-cudsa.html' title='Managing Conflict - CUDSA'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-2458195827602340724</id><published>2011-06-20T08:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-06-20T08:38:45.569-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='difficult behaviour'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='influencing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='webinar'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><title type='text'>Top 10: Ways to Lead by Example</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;Good leaders must lead by example. Through their actions, which are aligned with what they say, they become a person others want to follow. When leaders say one thing but do another, they erode trust, a critical element of productive leadership. Here are 10 of the dozens of ways to lead by example. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;1. Take responsibility.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Blame costs you your credibility, keeps team members on the defensive and ultimately sabotages real growth. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;2. Be truthful.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Inaccurate representation affects everyone. Show that honesty really IS the best policy. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;3. Be courageous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Walk through fire (a crisis) first. Take calculated risks that demonstrate commitment to a larger purpose. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Trebuchet MS&amp;quot;, sans-serif;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;4. Acknowledge failure.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; It makes it OK for your team to do the same and defines failure as part of the process of becoming extraordinary.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;5. Be persistent.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Try, try again. Go over, under or around any hurdles to show that obstacles don’t define your company or team. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;6. Create solutions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Don’t dwell on problems; instead be the first to offer solutions and then ask your team for more.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;7. Listen.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Ask questions. Seek to understand. You’ll receive valuable insights and set a tone that encourages healthy dialogue.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;8. Delegate liberally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Encourage an atmosphere in which people can focus on their core strengths.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;9. Take care of yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Exercise, don’t overwork, take a break. A balanced team, mentally and physically, is a successful team. Model it, encourage it, support it!&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&lt;b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;10. Roll up your sleeves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt; Like Alexander the Great leading his men into battle, you’ll inspire greatness in your company. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: inherit;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Find out more about how to lead your team and deal with difficult behaviour. Listen to our webinar. the &lt;a href="http://www.behavemasterclass.com/"&gt;5 keys to dealing with difficult behaviour at work&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-2458195827602340724?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk' title='Top 10: Ways to Lead by Example'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/2458195827602340724/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=2458195827602340724' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2458195827602340724'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2458195827602340724'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/06/top-10-ways-to-lead-by-example.html' title='Top 10: Ways to Lead by Example'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-8726993625270507683</id><published>2011-03-29T10:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T03:36:32.680-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='drums'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cooking'/><title type='text'>Build a successful team - interview</title><content type='html'>Trying to put together a team? Want to understand the process and what happens when you start to create a new team. David Mellor interviews Berry Winter about building teams and teambuilding. Team building should be more than just having a fun day out. In the interview we review the Tuckman model of forming, storming, norming and preforming. Below is an MP3 recoding of&amp;nbsp;the interview. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Check out the &lt;a href="http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building/Building%20a%20Successful%20Team%20%20%20davidmellor.mp3"&gt;Team Building Interview&lt;/a&gt; with Berry Winter&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-8726993625270507683?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Build a successful team - interview'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/8726993625270507683/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=8726993625270507683' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8726993625270507683'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8726993625270507683'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/03/build-successful-team-interview.html' title='Build a successful team - interview'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6634245180859211615</id><published>2011-03-28T11:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-03-28T11:38:53.008-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='influencing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='johari'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Ever wondered what a Johari window was?</title><content type='html'>The Johari window is named after Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham. It is a model of human interaction, leadership and influence and how and what we choose to reveal about ourselves. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Check out the video. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe title="YouTube video player" width="380" height="290" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EKHGEyVjHfA" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6634245180859211615?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk' title='Ever wondered what a Johari window was?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6634245180859211615/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6634245180859211615' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6634245180859211615'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6634245180859211615'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2011/03/ever-wondered-what-johari-window-was.html' title='Ever wondered what a Johari window was?'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://img.youtube.com/vi/EKHGEyVjHfA/default.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-5319691975477631412</id><published>2010-12-17T08:30:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-17T08:30:01.374-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Happy Christmas to you</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TQuP35SkQnI/AAAAAAAAAHU/Xxqagld_11k/s1600/happy%2Bchristmas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" width="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TQuP35SkQnI/AAAAAAAAAHU/Xxqagld_11k/s320/happy%2Bchristmas.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5319691975477631412?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk' title='Happy Christmas to you'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5319691975477631412/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5319691975477631412' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5319691975477631412'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5319691975477631412'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/12/happy-christmas-to-you.html' title='Happy Christmas to you'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TQuP35SkQnI/AAAAAAAAAHU/Xxqagld_11k/s72-c/happy%2Bchristmas.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-4105044844759201014</id><published>2010-09-05T02:43:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-05T02:52:48.467-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='teams'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creativity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='drums'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cooking'/><title type='text'>Team Building</title><content type='html'>Check out the animation software at Animoto.com. You can create some great animations!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object id="vp1dJ62B" width="432" height="240" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://static.animoto.com/swf/w.swf?w=swf/vp1&amp;e=1283679418&amp;f=dJ62BMo6hUIDPFsoB3iMTA&amp;d=30&amp;m=b&amp;r=w&amp;i=m&amp;options="&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed id="vp1dJ62B" src="http://static.animoto.com/swf/w.swf?w=swf/vp1&amp;e=1283679418&amp;f=dJ62BMo6hUIDPFsoB3iMTA&amp;d=30&amp;m=b&amp;r=w&amp;i=m&amp;options=" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="432" height="240"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;p&gt;Create your own &lt;a href="http://animoto.com"&gt;video slideshow&lt;/a&gt; at animoto.com.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-4105044844759201014?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Team Building'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/4105044844759201014/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=4105044844759201014' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4105044844759201014'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4105044844759201014'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/09/team-building.html' title='Team Building'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-2865507503668429457</id><published>2010-08-23T03:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-08-23T03:53:39.883-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stress'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Keep a log</title><content type='html'>Need to keep your motivated? Try keeping a log or diary of your daily events?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object height="285" width="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/fg-Mv23HUII?fs=1&amp;amp;hl=en_GB"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/fg-Mv23HUII?fs=1&amp;amp;hl=en_GB" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="344" height="285"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To find out more visit &lt;a href="http://www.getmotivated247.com"&gt;www.getmotivated247.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-2865507503668429457?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.getmotivated247.com' title='Keep a 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scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Team building with drama (video)</title><content type='html'>&lt;object height="385" width="480"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/N7PwxeX6TD0&amp;hl=en_GB&amp;fs=1&amp;"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/N7PwxeX6TD0&amp;hl=en_GB&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Great day using masks and drama to explore communication skills&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5897449003396941271?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/performance_team_building.htm' title='Team building with drama (video)'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5897449003396941271/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5897449003396941271' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5897449003396941271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5897449003396941271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/06/team-building-with-drama-video.html' title='Team building with drama (video)'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-7563128972852420823</id><published>2010-04-15T02:16:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T02:22:55.082-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Get Paid for Who You Are Challenge! Help raise money for the rainforest</title><content type='html'>Please help me raise some money for the Rainforest Foundation and the children living there. Get a free copy of David Wood's book Get Paid for Who You are. Follow the link below and help me get on the map!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/y37rctx"&gt;&lt;img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px" src="http://www.getpaidforwhoyouare.com/maps/map_image.php?e=berry@jamberry.co.uk" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-7563128972852420823?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://tinyurl.com/booksfb' title='Get Paid for Who You Are Challenge! Help raise money for the rainforest'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/7563128972852420823/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=7563128972852420823' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7563128972852420823'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7563128972852420823'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/04/get-paid-for-who-you-are-challenge-help.html' title='Get Paid for Who You Are Challenge! Help raise money for the rainforest'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-8702428975521641330</id><published>2010-03-22T06:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-18T08:28:03.184-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>7 Pitfalls when Making Presentations</title><content type='html'>Making presentations is one of the key business skills that many of us fear. Here are some thoughts on the pitfalls that can befall us and how you can overcome them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 1. Not being prepared.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even the best presenters need to know what they are talking about and what they are going to say. You can be the expert in your subject, but if you haven't ordered in your mind how you are going to put that across, then you may well fail to engage your audience and fail to get your message to them. Take the time to do your preparation well and thoroughly. It is also worth checking where you are in the running. What is the speaker before you likely to say? Will it be easy to follow it? Can you incorporate it into your own material by reference?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 2. Believing your slides will do the talking for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Spending too much time designing slides to support you and not enough time thinking about what you are going to say. There is nothing more boring than just talking through you slides. Make sure that you are the star of the show not them. That is not to say that your slides should be boring, far from it. You must make sure that you slides are simple, visible by your whole audience and use colours wisely. Use them to illustrate your talk, not dominate it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 3. Not thinking about your delivery.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good presenters have variety - variety in their voice, their stance and their material. People judge you on your body language so it is worth thinking about how you stand - feet apart with your weight evenly distributed. Use your voice to introduce variety into the presentation. Think about which points require emphasis and then how you can use your voice. Slow down, speed up, louder or quieter. Watch what others do. Listen to some great speakers from the past.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 4. Not checking about the technical equipment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How often do you turn up to talk to find that the PC and the projector are not compatible? Or there is no extension cable? Will you be using a microphone? Is it fixed or mobile? Will you get a chance to practice? It is worth spending sometime find out as much as possible about the venue, the facilities and the organisers expectations as possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 5. Not knowing who your audience are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Expecting an audience who know your subject well and understand all the references and get an audience who are new to the subject? Or get a group of experts who are looking for something new of the subject? Expecting 300 and only get 30 or maybe the other way around? The size and knowledge of your audience can make a huge difference about how you are able to interact with them. So check them out beforehand if you can.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 6. Failing to practice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regular speakers making the same speech may not need to practice much. But for the rest of us, it is important to practice to ensure you are familiar with the material. Check you material isn't going to cause to you overrun your allotted time slot. Or that you are not going to run out of material half way through. Also think through any questions that might be asked and how you are going to answer them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pitfall 7. Failing to have a backup plan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What happens if your worst nightmare happens and things go wrong? By thinking through all that things that might happen and planning for them you will feel more confident and able to relax. If the equipment is not working, does it really matter if you know your subject and can talk about it with confidence and ease? If you audience is bigger than you expected, embrace the challenge and work with them. Good planning will ensure that you can get through your presentation with the least possible trouble.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good luck!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-8702428975521641330?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/presentation_skills.htm' title='7 Pitfalls when Making Presentations'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/8702428975521641330/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=8702428975521641330' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8702428975521641330'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8702428975521641330'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/03/7-pitfalls-when-making-presentations.html' title='7 Pitfalls when Making Presentations'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3729315206871508532</id><published>2010-03-05T01:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-05T02:05:32.851-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creativity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='comedy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><title type='text'>Team Building with Drama and Masks</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S5DWwr2qm6I/AAAAAAAAAGc/zzisvnYHPXw/s1600-h/IMG_3194.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5445088081385003938" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S5DWwr2qm6I/AAAAAAAAAGc/zzisvnYHPXw/s320/IMG_3194.JPG" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;div&gt;On this team building day we were exploring the themes of communication, presntation and working together more closely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We had a great time using the wonderful Trestle Theatre masks on a drama team building session. They were able to allow us to explore body language and expression in an entirely new way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S5DRPAmNccI/AAAAAAAAAGM/Lena07DCO6s/s1600-h/IMG_3189.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5445082005279437250" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S5DRPAmNccI/AAAAAAAAAGM/Lena07DCO6s/s320/IMG_3189.JPG" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3729315206871508532?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/performance_team_building.htm' title='Team Building with Drama and Masks'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3729315206871508532/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3729315206871508532' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3729315206871508532'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3729315206871508532'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/03/team-building-with-drama-and-masks.html' title='Team Building with Drama and Masks'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S5DWwr2qm6I/AAAAAAAAAGc/zzisvnYHPXw/s72-c/IMG_3194.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-5989113025220238810</id><published>2010-03-03T07:26:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-03T07:43:07.799-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creativity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='metaphors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><title type='text'>Let's hand it to the team! #teambuilding</title><content type='html'>You have to hand it to them! This team got together to create a collection of hand paintings based on their own hands. They now have a permanent reminder of  the fact that they will be hands on in their jobs and work together more as a team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S46BKm3DDFI/AAAAAAAAAGE/lxai7Ulyf7w/s1600-h/hands1+-+small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 151px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5444431018767617106" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S46BKm3DDFI/AAAAAAAAAGE/lxai7Ulyf7w/s320/hands1+-+small.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S45_6cQsu-I/AAAAAAAAAF8/FFblUWidfgE/s1600-h/hands1.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5989113025220238810?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/training_from_jamberry_ltd.htm' title='Let&apos;s hand it to the team! #teambuilding'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5989113025220238810/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5989113025220238810' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5989113025220238810'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5989113025220238810'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/03/lets-hand-it-to-team-teambuilding.html' title='Let&apos;s hand it to the team! #teambuilding'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S46BKm3DDFI/AAAAAAAAAGE/lxai7Ulyf7w/s72-c/hands1+-+small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-8284050163582834929</id><published>2010-02-20T09:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-20T09:11:26.385-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='webinar'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><title type='text'>Get Motivated, Stay Motivated</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S4AXMUbUQgI/AAAAAAAAAF0/aUZxcpXpgv8/s1600-h/motivation2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S4AXMUbUQgI/AAAAAAAAAF0/aUZxcpXpgv8/s320/motivation2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5440373850272711170" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Had a great time on our Get Motivated Stay Motivated Webinar. &lt;a href="http://www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.co.uk"&gt;Click here &lt;/a&gt;to get the replay&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-8284050163582834929?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/8284050163582834929/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=8284050163582834929' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8284050163582834929'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8284050163582834929'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/02/get-motivated-stay-motivated.html' title='Get Motivated, Stay Motivated'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/S4AXMUbUQgI/AAAAAAAAAF0/aUZxcpXpgv8/s72-c/motivation2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3618578180264091807</id><published>2010-01-14T10:15:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-01-14T10:22:08.575-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stress'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Get Motivated, Stay Motivated</title><content type='html'>Want to get motivated in 2010? Visit &lt;a href="http://www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.co.uk/"&gt;www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.co.uk&lt;/a&gt; and sign up for the FREE Webinar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Motivation is about a state of mind. It is about the iner need that creates a compelloig desire to act. On the Webinar we will cover&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt; A few concepts about motivation &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Some things to do to improve your motivation and that of others…&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;…and, a Special Offer!&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;So if you would like to get motivated in 2010 come and join us on 18th February between 4 and 5 pm GMT&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3618578180264091807?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3618578180264091807/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3618578180264091807' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3618578180264091807'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3618578180264091807'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/01/get-motivated-stay-motivated.html' title='Get Motivated, Stay Motivated'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3366976050527691467</id><published>2010-01-08T08:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T03:28:03.266-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='calm'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stress'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>14 ways to Stay Calm</title><content type='html'>Keeping calm when all around you are in a panic. Here are some simple thoughts on how to Stay Calm! Enjoy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object height="344" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/nSwGXfkOijM&amp;amp;hl=en_GB&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/nSwGXfkOijM&amp;hl=en_GB&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3366976050527691467?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/coaching/coaching_home.html' title='14 ways to Stay Calm'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3366976050527691467/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3366976050527691467' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3366976050527691467'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3366976050527691467'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2010/01/14-ways-to-stay-calm.html' title='14 ways to Stay Calm'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-1059589420615288349</id><published>2009-11-10T08:55:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-10T08:55:30.118-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Cut Through The Noise - COL_UK</title><content type='html'>Check out this SlideShare Presentation: &lt;div style="width:425px;text-align:left" id="__ss_2461898"&gt;&lt;a style="font:14px Helvetica,Arial,Sans-serif;display:block;margin:12px 0 3px 0;text-decoration:underline;" href="http://www.slideshare.net/roger1080/cut-through-the-noise-coluk" title="Cut Through The Noise - COL_UK"&gt;Cut Through The Noise - COL_UK&lt;/a&gt;&lt;object style="margin:0px" width="425" height="355"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://static.slidesharecdn.com/swf/ssplayer2.swf?doc=091109coluk1080groupcutthroughthenoisev2-091109220028-phpapp01&amp;stripped_title=cut-through-the-noise-coluk" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"/&gt;&lt;param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"/&gt;&lt;embed src="http://static.slidesharecdn.com/swf/ssplayer2.swf?doc=091109coluk1080groupcutthroughthenoisev2-091109220028-phpapp01&amp;stripped_title=cut-through-the-noise-coluk" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="355"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div style="font-size:11px;font-family:tahoma,arial;height:26px;padding-top:2px;"&gt;View more &lt;a style="text-decoration:underline;" href="http://www.slideshare.net/"&gt;presentations&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a style="text-decoration:underline;" href="http://www.slideshare.net/roger1080"&gt;roger1080&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-1059589420615288349?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/1059589420615288349/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=1059589420615288349' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1059589420615288349'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1059589420615288349'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/11/cut-through-noise-coluk.html' title='Cut Through The Noise - COL_UK'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-8213523500583339529</id><published>2009-11-02T07:20:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T07:26:43.275-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mentoring'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>7 Ways to Deal with Difficult People</title><content type='html'>Dealing with difficult people is about staying in control of yourself, of the situation and the conversation. Sometimes you have to brave it out. This doesn’t mean fighting back but it may mean waiting until they have vent their spleen. Here are a few ideas on how you can deal with difficult people. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listen – people like to talk about themselves so let them have their say. By listening you are creating an opportunity for that person to release pent up feelings. The trick is to know when to say stop, now I have listened and it is time to move on.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Build empathy – empathy is about being able to respect each others different points of view. You have opened up the communications channels. You do not have to sympathise with someone to build understanding about someone else’s position.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Build rapport – by listening you have started the process. It enables you to find the points of connection and build on those to create a good working relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be patient – difficult people are not always the loud ones. Sometimes quiet people can be just as difficult to deal with. They may come across as shy, sullen, uncommunicative etc. Give them the opportunity to overcome their reluctance to communicate in a non-threatening environment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Stay in adult – if someone is acting in a childish way, don’t react by becoming childish as well. Stay in adult mode and wait for them to catch you up. Remember how frustrating toddlers are to deal with. Give them some space to work things out for themselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bring them back to the point – the difficulty may be someone who likes to talk too much. Each time they go off the subject bring them gently but firmly back to the matter in hand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch your language – you can’t always understand someone else’s feeling, but you can accept that they have the right to have them. Avoid “I understand how you feel…” and substitute “I understand that you are feeling…” Always comment on the behaviour not the person.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-8213523500583339529?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/8213523500583339529/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=8213523500583339529' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8213523500583339529'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8213523500583339529'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/11/7-ways-to-deal-with-difficult-people.html' title='7 Ways to Deal with Difficult People'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-4179818859766484544</id><published>2009-10-26T08:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T03:30:39.687-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='influencing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='metaphors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Give Yourself a New Job Title</title><content type='html'>How much does your job title define your job? How much does it determine your approach to your job? How does it affect other people's approach to you? The name of your job very often tries to describe what you do. so on that premise if you want to do something different, or want your staff to, then change the name!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Imagine you had a new job title. Not any old title but one that would make a difference - to you and your team. Take for example &lt;em&gt;Director of Making a Difference.&lt;/em&gt; What is the difference that you would make? It could be a different way of getting things done, or it might be making the difference to your customers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What about &lt;em&gt;Head of Momentum&lt;/em&gt;? Where might you find momentum in your organisation? How would you go about creating it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are a few more different job tiles you could use:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Company Journey Planner&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Director of Money Matters&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Head of Executions&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Company Team Tracker&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Changing the name of your job may change the way you view it and where you place the emphasis - so go on give your job a new name!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-4179818859766484544?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/change_management.htm' title='Give Yourself a New Job Title'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/4179818859766484544/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=4179818859766484544' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4179818859766484544'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4179818859766484544'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/10/give-yourself-new-job-title.html' title='Give Yourself a New Job Title'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6597333455985641457</id><published>2009-10-12T08:42:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-01-17T06:28:00.470-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><title type='text'>6 Mistakes when Leading Teams</title><content type='html'>Leading teams can be fraught with difficulties. Here are just a few of the most common ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believing your whole team understands and accepts the team goals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Issue: When did you last check that your team understood the overall team objectives and their role within that? Teams are made up of individuals and unless all the individuals are on board with the basic messages then there will always be forces pulling the team in different directions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next step: Set up meetings with individuals, groups, whole teams and ask them what they believe their goals to be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Believing team name does not make a difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Issue: Your name is part of your identity. So it is with teams. Call a team Complaints Dept and they will. Teams need to be branded in a way that they find acceptable and ideally presents a positive image to the people they have to deal with outside the team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next step: Conduct a team branding exercise. Ask about perceptions of the team as it stands and what needs to be change. Make the team and brand an aspirational place to work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Allowing the latest person to join the team to be trained by the last person to join.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Issue: Ever heard of Chinese whispers? Everyone puts their own interpretation on instructions and if training is conducted by someone different each time, then the messages on how to do jobs well is likely to get diluted. Training someone to do their job well needs to be done by someone who understands the job objectives and the purpose of the team. Not paying attention to the messages that people are receiving in the early days in the job means that bad practice gets spread around and become entrenched.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next step: Always be involved in some aspects of the training and make training part of someone’s job description.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Teams need to be controlled&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Issue: High performing teams have a clear sense of direction, but they do not need to be controlled. There needs to be to be regular check points but not to the extent that they get in the way of the teams’ performance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next step: Set fair performance targets for the team with a way of measuring and rewarding tasks that get done well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Teams that appear alright on the surface are OK.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Issue: All good leaders should be aware of any underlying problems in their teams and look for ways to tackle them before they become a major issue. Ignoring problems very often means that they will just fester under the surface and inhibit a teams progress.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next step: Build trust with your team, one at a time if necessary. Teams don’t necessarily have to like each other, but they do need to respect each other. Make sure respect is one of your teams’ values.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The leader knows better than the team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Issue: Great team leaders know when to listen to their team. Team members are doing the job day in and day out and their opinions are vital to the success of the teams’ objectives. As team leader you need to take on board members views and where appropriate act on them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Next step: Set up a listening post – some form of process for allowing your team to past back vital bits of information about the operation, project, product, customers – whatever - so that you can act on it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6597333455985641457?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='6 Mistakes when Leading Teams'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6597333455985641457/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6597333455985641457' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6597333455985641457'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6597333455985641457'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/10/6-mistakes-when-leading-teams.html' title='6 Mistakes when Leading Teams'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-5026137346592253704</id><published>2009-09-03T09:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-12-06T09:05:11.631-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='manual handling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Health and Safety'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Manual Handling training made fun</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_tkRlGq3I/AAAAAAAAAFk/Q3CEQ0vADYw/s1600-h/IMG_2523.JPG"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5377277687553764210" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_tkRlGq3I/AAAAAAAAAFk/Q3CEQ0vADYw/s320/IMG_2523.JPG" style="float: left; height: 320px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; width: 240px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Manual Handling comes under one of those categories where everyone goes "why do I need to know about that!" that is unless they already have a bad back, or have damaged themselves by carrying heavy objects, awkward parcels or recently had an office clear out!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_tNvLBtAI/AAAAAAAAAFc/rNSqAyaUjwE/s1600-h/IMG_2541.JPG"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5377277300360459266" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_tNvLBtAI/AAAAAAAAAFc/rNSqAyaUjwE/s320/IMG_2541.JPG" style="float: left; height: 240px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; width: 320px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So when we set out to train a group recently, we made sure that not only did they learn some valuable skills which will help them look after their spines and other bits of their skeleton and bodies, but that they also had fun in the process!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_uYKLrLVI/AAAAAAAAAFs/4a6xLG91Wso/s1600-h/IMG_2539.JPG"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5377278578921254226" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_uYKLrLVI/AAAAAAAAAFs/4a6xLG91Wso/s320/IMG_2539.JPG" style="float: left; height: 240px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; width: 320px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So next time you are thinking of moving something heavy or awkward, stop and think:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;does it need moving?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;am I the best person to move it?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;how clear is my route?&lt;br /&gt;do I need help?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Stay safe and look after yourself!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5026137346592253704?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/Health_and_Safety/Health_and_Safety.htm' title='Manual Handling training made fun'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5026137346592253704/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5026137346592253704' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5026137346592253704'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5026137346592253704'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/09/manual-handling-training-made-fun.html' title='Manual Handling training made fun'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/Sp_tkRlGq3I/AAAAAAAAAFk/Q3CEQ0vADYw/s72-c/IMG_2523.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-4157854894774257858</id><published>2009-07-30T03:49:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-30T04:17:44.279-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><title type='text'>Five course menu and Drumming!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnF_UIc9itI/AAAAAAAAAE0/7mMhTv1X6vU/s1600-h/IMG_2303.JPG"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnF_7-eUSuI/AAAAAAAAAE8/srpe2HiUJY4/s1600-h/IMG_2300.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364209299534138082" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnF_7-eUSuI/AAAAAAAAAE8/srpe2HiUJY4/s320/IMG_2300.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Just had a great couple of days with a team who chose to create a five course menu and follow it the next day with a drumming session. Great fun had by all.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Not only that they felt that they had got to know each other better and had re-energised as a team.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnGAvqo8kcI/AAAAAAAAAFE/hGcDF7tWnmk/s1600-h/IMG_2311.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364210187563209154" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnGAvqo8kcI/AAAAAAAAAFE/hGcDF7tWnmk/s320/IMG_2311.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnF8iHZK-BI/AAAAAAAAAEs/tW3fx-FvYkA/s1600-h/IMG_2300.JPG"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnF8DI2A_JI/AAAAAAAAAEk/kN2dVhD5iZU/s1600-h/IMG_2311.JPG"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-4157854894774257858?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Five course menu and Drumming!'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/4157854894774257858/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=4157854894774257858' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4157854894774257858'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4157854894774257858'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/07/five-course-menu-and-drumming.html' title='Five course menu and Drumming!'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SnF_7-eUSuI/AAAAAAAAAE8/srpe2HiUJY4/s72-c/IMG_2300.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3737930066644564893</id><published>2009-07-22T07:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-22T07:59:43.770-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business coaching'/><title type='text'>Which hat are you wearing?</title><content type='html'>With all the doom and gloom that has been around, you could be forgiven for wearing your black hat. This looks at all the negatives and what else can go wrong. For many, they seem to be wearing a red hat for anger. Anger with Fat Cats and anger with the politicians. A White hat may keep you aloof and concentrating on the facts and figures, whereas with a Green hat your imagination could run wild. A Blue hat would allow you to summarise everything and tkae a longer term view. Personally I prefer the idea of a Yellow hat. Let's keep things as sunny as possible and find some positives out there!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I used the "Six Thinking Hats" - Edward de Bono&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3737930066644564893?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/coaching/coaching_home.html' title='Which hat are you wearing?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3737930066644564893/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3737930066644564893' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3737930066644564893'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3737930066644564893'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/07/which-hat-are-you-wearing.html' title='Which hat are you wearing?'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-2502878259392646928</id><published>2009-06-29T03:22:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-29T03:29:39.592-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='business coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Spinning the plates</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SkiW_nTokiI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/tG-u8kXzuVM/s1600-h/IMG_2193.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5352694176757092898" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SkiW_nTokiI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/tG-u8kXzuVM/s320/IMG_2193.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SkiW_CvhzPI/AAAAAAAAAEI/3lKp3Hq934o/s1600-h/IMG_2198.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5352694166941977842" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SkiW_CvhzPI/AAAAAAAAAEI/3lKp3Hq934o/s320/IMG_2198.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Images of customers spinning plates on the JamBerry stand at Let's Do Business last week. All the talk there was about re-energising people and teams for the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-2502878259392646928?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Spinning the plates'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/2502878259392646928/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=2502878259392646928' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2502878259392646928'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2502878259392646928'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/06/spinning-plates.html' title='Spinning the plates'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SkiW_nTokiI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/tG-u8kXzuVM/s72-c/IMG_2193.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6715049125947913719</id><published>2009-06-10T08:45:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-10T08:57:43.793-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change management'/><title type='text'>Pitfalls of Managing Change</title><content type='html'>"There is nothing more difficult to carry out, nore more doubtful of success, nor more dangerous to handle than to initiate a new order of things. For the reformer has enemies in all who profit by the old order, and only luke warm defenders in all who would profit by the new order.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The lukewarmness arises partly from fear of their adversaries whi have the law and traditiion i their favour and aprtly from the incredibiltyof mankind who do not truly belive in anything new until they have had actual expereince of it."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Machiavelli (1513)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6715049125947913719?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/index.htm' title='Pitfalls of Managing Change'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6715049125947913719/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6715049125947913719' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6715049125947913719'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6715049125947913719'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/06/pitfalls-of-managing-change.html' title='Pitfalls of Managing Change'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-8149470052550429258</id><published>2009-06-04T09:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-04T09:49:46.139-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='change management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management development'/><title type='text'>Reshuffle Your Cabinet</title><content type='html'>With a reshuffle in the air, what shoud Gordon Brown remember about change management?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Establish a sense of urgency - there's nothing worst than change that drags on, leaving everyone frutated in its wake.&lt;br /&gt;2. Develop a vision and strategy - make sure you are clear on where you want to get to and when&lt;br /&gt;3. Communicate the change vision - don't forget to tell everyone where the organisation is now headed for and why&lt;br /&gt;4. Introduce new customs and practices - make change visible so that it doesn't just become bsuiness as usual&lt;br /&gt;5. Empower a broad base of people to take action - action makes change happen, without it you are lost&lt;br /&gt;6. Generate short term wins - and celebrate them appropriately&lt;br /&gt;7. Consolidate, consolidate, consolidate&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good luck Gordon!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-8149470052550429258?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/change_management.htm' title='Reshuffle Your Cabinet'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/8149470052550429258/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=8149470052550429258' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8149470052550429258'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8149470052550429258'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/06/reshuffle-your-cabinet.html' title='Reshuffle Your Cabinet'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3118001897983735108</id><published>2009-03-17T10:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-17T10:22:54.819-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><title type='text'>The Keys to Success</title><content type='html'>Found this great little video for all those entreprenuers out there&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/view/id/70"&gt;http://www.ted.com/talks/view/id/70&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3118001897983735108?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3118001897983735108/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3118001897983735108' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3118001897983735108'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3118001897983735108'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/03/keys-to-success.html' title='The Keys to Success'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-1252045851642111271</id><published>2009-03-12T10:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-12T11:02:28.338-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><title type='text'>Making Heros</title><content type='html'>Ways to Make Heroes&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all need a hero from time to time - but we can also make people into heros - here's how!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Whether they are officially rewarded or not, say thank you to employees who have achieved their targets.&lt;br /&gt;2. Thank people for their suggestions whether you use them or not. Thank them for their concern.&lt;br /&gt;3. Take your boss to lunch in appreciation for their help on a project or piece of work.&lt;br /&gt;4. Keep an innovation book for good ideas and recognise those that get adopted.&lt;br /&gt;5. Create symbol’s of a teams work or efforts (T-shirts or coffee mugs with motto or logo)&lt;br /&gt;6. Reward those who are not normally in the limelight for doing their job well.&lt;br /&gt;7. Support staff in their continuing professional development. Encourage them to learn.&lt;br /&gt;8. When discussing an idea with your boss that has come from an employee, make sure they get the recognition.&lt;br /&gt;9. Create group level awards to recognise teamwork.&lt;br /&gt;10. Provide a donation in the name of an employee to a charity of their choice&lt;br /&gt;11. Create an ongoing recognition award named after a particularly outstanding employee.&lt;br /&gt;12. Create a company Oscar ceremony to recognise outstanding performance.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-1252045851642111271?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/training_overview.htm' title='Making Heros'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/1252045851642111271/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=1252045851642111271' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1252045851642111271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1252045851642111271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2009/03/i-need-hero.html' title='Making Heros'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-5695158786955156438</id><published>2008-12-17T06:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-17T07:18:38.308-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sussex'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='drums'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='communication skills'/><title type='text'>Beat this for Teams</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="320" height="266" class="BLOG_video_class" id="BLOG_video-65de239080db318c" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/get_player"&gt;&lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#FFFFFF"&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="flashvars" value="flvurl=http://v16.nonxt3.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D65de239080db318c%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1329971211%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D27AD463CFDF555762A982A161AE5E27B16D5F600.325F2F98E3580247A6E4DB781B5D755DB0812583%26key%3Dck1&amp;amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D65de239080db318c%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3DeiHeX4SdBi7QJpwejm1lz4jblfk&amp;amp;autoplay=0&amp;amp;ps=blogger"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/get_player" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"width="320" height="266" bgcolor="#FFFFFF"flashvars="flvurl=http://v16.nonxt3.googlevideo.com/videoplayback?id%3D65de239080db318c%26itag%3D5%26app%3Dblogger%26ip%3D0.0.0.0%26ipbits%3D0%26expire%3D1329971211%26sparams%3Did,itag,ip,ipbits,expire%26signature%3D27AD463CFDF555762A982A161AE5E27B16D5F600.325F2F98E3580247A6E4DB781B5D755DB0812583%26key%3Dck1&amp;iurl=http://video.google.com/ThumbnailServer2?app%3Dblogger%26contentid%3D65de239080db318c%26offsetms%3D5000%26itag%3Dw160%26sigh%3DeiHeX4SdBi7QJpwejm1lz4jblfk&amp;autoplay=0&amp;ps=blogger"allowFullScreen="true" /&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Listen up! When this team wanted to round off their day with some music this got them working together, listening, laughing, having fun and most of all making music together as a team! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5695158786955156438?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building_with_music.htm' title='Beat this for Teams'/><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=65de239080db318c&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5695158786955156438/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5695158786955156438' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5695158786955156438'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5695158786955156438'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/12/beat-this-for-teams.html' title='Beat this for Teams'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-4697777828938274338</id><published>2008-12-17T06:33:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-12-17T07:26:01.985-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sussex'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><title type='text'>Team Building with Profiteroles!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SUkODCr3WyI/AAAAAAAAAC0/5RgB9gmvoRk/s1600-h/DSCN0230.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280767483491867426" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SUkODCr3WyI/AAAAAAAAAC0/5RgB9gmvoRk/s320/DSCN0230.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Now when it comes to a great end to the day, eating profiteroles made by your team has to take the biscuit - or should I say cake!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whichever, the profiteroles were great and the team worked beautifully together which obviously came out in their cooking!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now if we could just add a bit more cream.....&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-4697777828938274338?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Team Building with Profiteroles!'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/4697777828938274338/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=4697777828938274338' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4697777828938274338'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/4697777828938274338'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/12/team-buuilding-with-profiteroles.html' title='Team Building with Profiteroles!'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SUkODCr3WyI/AAAAAAAAAC0/5RgB9gmvoRk/s72-c/DSCN0230.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-2272598396839945709</id><published>2008-10-16T07:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-10-16T07:45:58.596-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creativity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><title type='text'>Wish for more Skills!</title><content type='html'>Don’t wish for fewer problems. Wish for more skills!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How often do you wish that you had fewer problems? We all do at some point. But supposing we wished for more skills to deal with those problems instead?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A problem is an issue if we don’t have the resources to deal with it. Whilst many issues are not of our own making, nevertheless knowing that you have the resources to deal with whatever is thrown at you can turn a nightmare situation into a manageable challenge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Personal and management development can ensure that individuals have the skills they need to deal with difficult situations when they arise. Whether it is dealing with people, budgets, projects, or planning, knowing what to do, who to ask or where to find out the answer can make all the difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And for businesses, knowing that their staff are flexible, knowledgeable and competent can make the difference between loss and survival or indeed survival and growth!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t wish for change, change what you wish for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don’t wish for less challenge, accept the challenge and wish for more wisdom to both understand and overcome the challenge.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-2272598396839945709?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Wish for more Skills!'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/2272598396839945709/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=2272598396839945709' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2272598396839945709'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2272598396839945709'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/10/wish-for-more-skills.html' title='Wish for more Skills!'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-2040792322224597570</id><published>2008-08-18T08:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-08-18T08:10:55.277-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='music'/><title type='text'>Team Building with The Music Gym</title><content type='html'>Isn't it great when you can do your job and have fun and help others? Talk about a win, win situation!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have done just that by teaming up with &lt;a href="http://www.themusicgym.org/"&gt;The Music Gym&lt;/a&gt; to allow us to provide team building using audio and sound technology, originally designed for the disabled, but adapted to create a great experience for others as well. And whilst we are having fun and helping others learn about teams, and team dynamics, some of the the fee goes back to helping the disabled. Great eh?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-2040792322224597570?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building_with_music.htm' title='Team Building with The Music Gym'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/2040792322224597570/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=2040792322224597570' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2040792322224597570'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/2040792322224597570'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/08/team-building-with-music-gym.html' title='Team Building with The Music Gym'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-9121006216170812755</id><published>2008-07-06T09:13:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-12T20:46:52.682-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cooking'/><title type='text'>Masterchef helps with Teamwork</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SHDxMOR0CdI/AAAAAAAAACA/YChS8I8NkSA/s1600-h/IMG_0707.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5219937160415939026" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 208px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 188px" height="133" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SHDxMOR0CdI/AAAAAAAAACA/YChS8I8NkSA/s320/IMG_0707.JPG" width="107" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Masterchef Peter Bayless joined our Team Building day last week, bringing his own spin on cooking pasta to the fray. With recipes such as Between the Blankets and Putanesca Sauce the team had fun making the pasta and eating the results. Thanks Peter.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-9121006216170812755?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building_with_cooking.htm' title='Masterchef helps with Teamwork'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/9121006216170812755/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=9121006216170812755' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/9121006216170812755'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/9121006216170812755'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/07/masterchef-helps-with-teamwork.html' title='Masterchef helps with Teamwork'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/SHDxMOR0CdI/AAAAAAAAACA/YChS8I8NkSA/s72-c/IMG_0707.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-8694151188849591406</id><published>2008-06-30T11:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-30T11:45:44.920-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='coaching'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='mentoring'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation'/><title type='text'>Motivation</title><content type='html'>5 ways to motivate others:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Motivating employees starts with motivating yourself. Find out what motivates you and use it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Each person is motivated by different things. The first thing you need to do is to find out what it is that really motivates each of your employees.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. Few of us have the outstanding qualities of inspirational figures such as Nelson Mandela but we all have an ability to inspire employees in small but meaningful ways. When people are inspired they become more enthusiastic, motivated and engaged which invariably improves their performance&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. Killer whales like fish. Their trainers use it to raise the bar that they jump over – a bit at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. Learn to let go – you need to trust people to use their own judgment .&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-8694151188849591406?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/coaching/coaching_home.html' title='Motivation'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/8694151188849591406/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=8694151188849591406' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8694151188849591406'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/8694151188849591406'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/06/motivation.html' title='Motivation'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-5041604569344543376</id><published>2008-05-02T06:58:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-30T02:36:41.364-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='presentations'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='leadership'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='public speaking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal development'/><title type='text'>Creating Great Presentations</title><content type='html'>Want to create a great presentation? Here are a few tips.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Know your subject - there is nothing worse than some talking about something they know nothing about. The audience will see through you. Do your research and you will feel much more relaxed.&lt;br /&gt;2. Understand your audience - know who they are and what they want to get out of being there. Remember, your audience want you to succeed. Who wants to sit in a presenation that doesn't? So they are on your side.&lt;br /&gt;3. Have a conversation. Keep the audience involved by getting them involved.&lt;br /&gt;4. Dress well - make sure you look the part - looks really do count.&lt;br /&gt;5. Speak up - if you have something to say make sure you can be heard otherwise your audience will go to sleep!&lt;br /&gt;6. Don't overcrowd your slides - good visuals are so important in a world of constantly changing images being presented to us all the time.&lt;br /&gt;7. Have fun - if you are having fun then the audience is more likely to.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5041604569344543376?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/presentation_skills.htm' title='Creating Great Presentations'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5041604569344543376/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5041604569344543376' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5041604569344543376'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5041604569344543376'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/05/creating-great-presentations.html' title='Creating Great Presentations'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6701953609883404144</id><published>2008-04-03T07:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-03T07:31:10.024-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='recession'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><title type='text'>Training yourself out of recession</title><content type='html'>OK so the winds of a down turn are beginning to bite, but it doesn't have to be all doom a gloom. There is evidence to suggest that organisations who spend on training in a recession are the first to emerge and grow rapidly at the end of it. It makes sense after all. If you look after your staff and develop their talents whilst your competitors are failing to do so, then your company will be in a much better position to take advantage of an upturn when it does come along.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not only that, you will weather the storm itself much better. Flexible staff, who are committed to the organisation, inspired by new ideas and committment from their managers will certainly give more of their best than those who are told "wait and see, perhaps next year".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to get more done, you have to show people how to do it more effectively.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6701953609883404144?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/management_development_programme.htm' title='Training yourself out of recession'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6701953609883404144/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6701953609883404144' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6701953609883404144'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6701953609883404144'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/04/training-yourself-out-of-recession.html' title='Training yourself out of recession'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-417407036635053576</id><published>2008-03-07T11:02:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-12T20:46:52.940-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Brighton Science Festival'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><title type='text'>Team Building at Brighton Science Festival</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/R9GRhB8h4kI/AAAAAAAAABM/PmNvdQDbjuI/s1600-h/2008_0301BSF0005a.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5175077443469435458" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/R9GRhB8h4kI/AAAAAAAAABM/PmNvdQDbjuI/s320/2008_0301BSF0005a.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Team building can be a tricky business. It requires good communication and concentration. Recently attending the Brighton Science Festival, we challenged a number of teams to lay a stick on the floor without any team member losing touch with the stick, which was resting on their fingers, or hooking their fingers around the stick. A seemly easy task, it can prove difficult to accomplish. Small movements can cause the stick to rise rather than fall, causing confusion and disarray.&lt;br /&gt;Here is a team from the Open University trying their hand at it, and successfully laying it to rest on the floor!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-417407036635053576?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building.htm' title='Team Building at Brighton Science Festival'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/417407036635053576/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=417407036635053576' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/417407036635053576'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/417407036635053576'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/03/team-building-at-brighton-science.html' title='Team Building at Brighton Science Festival'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/R9GRhB8h4kI/AAAAAAAAABM/PmNvdQDbjuI/s72-c/2008_0301BSF0005a.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-7454072709189822525</id><published>2008-02-29T02:15:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-29T02:32:36.768-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='influencing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal effectiveness'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='middle management'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='management'/><title type='text'>Top Tips for Middle Managers</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;Top Tips for Middle Managers&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Based on ‘Managing in the Middle’ by Barry Oshry, which can be found at &lt;a href="http://www.executiveforum.com/"&gt;www.executiveforum.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even in today’s world of flatter, leaner organisations, most organisations continue to have three levels of hierarchy. At the top there are the people who shape and give direction to the entire organisation. At the bottom are the workers, who manufacture the business’s products or render its services. Between them are those in the middle, often torn between meeting the demands of those at the top and responding to the needs and concerns of the workers they are expected to manage. The middle can be a confusing and ambiguous place, yet it is potentially a point of powerful influence, both upwards and downwards.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some Top Tips for Middles&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Resist the urge to make other people’s problems, issues and conflicts your own. Your job is to coach and empower them to resolve their issues, not take responsibility for them&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep your own mind. Pay attention to your point of view, your values, your solutions. This will maximise your personal contribution to collective problem solving.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be a Top whenever you can. If you can resolve a problem without passing it up to the Top, then do it. Tops only need to be involved with problems that are unsolvable at the Middle level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be a Worker when you should. If your team is short-staffed or has a sudden influx of work, then help them out with it. But remember, this should only be a short term solution. If it becomes long term then you need to re-focus on the systemic problems which are causing it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Facilitate solutions by bringing together the people who need to be together, and helping them to have productive interactions. This is more effective than trying to act as a buffer between them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Integrate with other Middles. Strong, interactive relationships with your peers will enable you to make a strong collective contribution and reduce your feelings of isolation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;To see the full version of this article visit &lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.satc.org.uk/62/managing-in-the-middle/"&gt;http://www.satc.org.uk/62/managing-in-the-middle/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-7454072709189822525?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.satc.org.uk/62/managing-in-the-middle/' title='Top Tips for Middle Managers'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/7454072709189822525/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=7454072709189822525' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7454072709189822525'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7454072709189822525'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/02/top-tips-for-middle-managers.html' title='Top Tips for Middle Managers'/><author><name>Steve Amos</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6416556027709269454</id><published>2008-02-23T08:45:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-11-12T20:46:53.212-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='team building'/><title type='text'>Team Building with Cooking</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/R8BN0fZKyYI/AAAAAAAAAAs/-pn5QOcu2hA/s1600-h/pasta.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5170217936396929410" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/R8BN0fZKyYI/AAAAAAAAAAs/-pn5QOcu2hA/s200/pasta.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; There is no doubt that working together to make a meal is a rewarding experience. We've just had fun working with a client on a team building exercise where they had to put together a meal of ravioli, lasagne, tagliatelle and foccacia. Making the pasta from scratch was a good way of working out any initial frustrations and the resultant meal was a feast, tasting all the better because they had cooked it themselves.  The team also had the opportunity to share the experience which would stand them in good stead back in the office. All in all, a good days work!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6416556027709269454?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/team_building_with_cooking.htm' title='Team Building with Cooking'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6416556027709269454/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6416556027709269454' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6416556027709269454'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6416556027709269454'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/02/team-building-with-cooking.html' title='Team Building with Cooking'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/R8BN0fZKyYI/AAAAAAAAAAs/-pn5QOcu2hA/s72-c/pasta.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-3412336053461297089</id><published>2008-02-12T17:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-12T09:42:36.763-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Value &amp; Beliefs in Coaching</title><content type='html'>In order to build rapport with a client it is important to respect the client's values and beliefs. This does not mean that you have to agree with them, but we have to be willing to see events from their perspective.&lt;br /&gt;Having taken on the client, a coach needs to work with them at the value and beliefs level, as it is at these higher levels that it is possible to fully unlock the potential for performance and behaviour change.  So, as an example, even if a client has the skills and capabilities, he will not use them if his &lt;strong&gt;belief&lt;/strong&gt; is such that he can't. Even if he believes he can, he won't if he is not motivated by his &lt;strong&gt;values&lt;/strong&gt; to do so.&lt;br /&gt;By working with beliefs and values we are working directly with the client's beliefs about themselves and with their self-esteem and motivation, both vital ingredients to success and excellence.&lt;br /&gt;We need to work with the client to discard the beliefs that are holding them back, and replace them with beliefs that are conducive to success and the desired results.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-3412336053461297089?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/3412336053461297089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=3412336053461297089' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3412336053461297089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/3412336053461297089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/02/value-beliefs-in-coaching.html' title='Value &amp; Beliefs in Coaching'/><author><name>Carol-Anne Baker</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_NS4c1RXmiJQ/R5YqTZs99lI/AAAAAAAAAAM/YJNUkQXG1G8/S220/DSCF0215a.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-6088376847862065744</id><published>2008-02-01T06:46:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-01T06:54:27.873-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Manual Handling training or not?</title><content type='html'>Whilst I don't usually recommend the Daily Mail have a look at the following articler;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/health/healthmain.html?in_article_id=511611&amp;amp;in_page_id=1774"&gt;http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/health/healthmain.html?in_article_id=511611&amp;amp;in_page_id=1774&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then read the following comment:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is well known in the Health &amp;amp; Safety industry and the HSE that the recommended techniques are 'open to question' and do not actually work in reducing the risk of back injury. With the current HSE recommended techniques as the centre of training courses workers don't change their habits sufficiently for them to make a difference as it becomes obvious that they are not possible in so many tasks.&lt;br /&gt;We provide this training and use the HSE Techniques as a starting point. In reality the only way to genuinely reduce the risk is for each individual to be trained in Manual Handling Risk Assessment so that they can make informed choices rather than being taught by rote a set of techniques that are impossible to apply in far to many cases.&lt;br /&gt;As for suggesting that we all try to stop Manual Handling, the reality is that many of these tasks have to happen and a lot more practical advice, financial support and encouragement should be forthcoming from governmental agencies.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-6088376847862065744?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/Health_and_Safety/Health_Safety_training.htm' title='Manual Handling training or not?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/6088376847862065744/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=6088376847862065744' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6088376847862065744'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/6088376847862065744'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/02/manual-handling-training-or-not.html' title='Manual Handling training or not?'/><author><name>James Hammerton-Fraser</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10676333369363458257</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_NraBz1giLjQ/R4s10624HBI/AAAAAAAAAAU/JbchicTHb1o/S220/James+051108.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-1735229945733326628</id><published>2008-01-24T02:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-28T08:35:21.674-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='creativity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='paradoxes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='metaphors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='comedy'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='questions'/><title type='text'>Unlocking Creativity</title><content type='html'>&lt;strong&gt;10 Mental Locks and Some Ideas on Opening Them&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;10 Mental Locks&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In his book 'A Whack on the Side of the Head' (Warner Books, 1990) Roger von Oech identifies ten mental locks - restrictive ways of thinking that we get shut into:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;The right answer&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;That's not logical&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Follow the rules&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Be practical&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Play is frivolous&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;That's not my area &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Avoid ambiguity&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Don't be foolish&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;To err is wrong&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I'm not creative&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;'A Whack on the Side of the Head'&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Von Oech suggests that 'we all need an occasional whack on the side of the head to shake us out of routine patterns, to force us to re-think our problems, and to stimulate us to ask the questions that may lead to the right answers'.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Fortunately the 'whack on the side of the head' recommended by von Oech is a metaphor - no physical violence should be involved! Metaphors are a powerful technique for unblocking thinking which has become stuck and helping us to see things differently.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Metaphors&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Much of the language we use when talking about business involves the use of metaphors - we talk of 'flooding the market', 'pumping money in', or 'freezing assets'. Some of these metaphors have become cliches - so commonly used that we no longer register the gap between the words used and the message they convey.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stand-up comedians are good at coming up with new metaphors, which make people look at the world in a different way. For example:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"Whales living off krill and plankton is like Geoff Capes eating only hundreds and thousands."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(Sean Lock)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"The Football Association holding an inquiry into why England didn't qualify for Euro 2008 is like an inquiry being held into why the Titanic sank by the iceberg."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(Sandi Toksvig, The News Quiz)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A business presentation will be enhanced by the use of metaphors. Some you can take 'off the shelf' (to use another metaphor!) - for example:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"The mind works like a parachute -it works best when it is opened"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(The Dalai Lama)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing. That's why we recommend it daily."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(Zig Ziglar)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At other times we might want to illustrate our points by coming up with our own metaphors. For example, in an e-mail to Sally Holloway when we were designing our 'Comedy Skills for Business Presenters' course, I wrote:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"It's like cooking a meal using two very different ingredients. Will it work best if we mix them together - like duck in a plum sauce; or will it be better to keep them separate as a main course and dessert, like chicken and banana?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This metaphor helped to unblock our thinking and make decisions about when to bring together stand-up skills and business presenting, and at which points to keep them apart.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;'What if?' Questions&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another useful technique for unblocking creativity is to ask "What if?" Paul Merton's flights of fancy on 'Have I Got News for You' often begin with a statement like 'Wouldn't it be great if...'&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wouldn't it be great if...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We started doing what we enjoy, rather than what we think will make a profit?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We told our customers/colleagues/bosses what we really think of them?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We made all public servants wear fancy dress (not just the judges!)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some 'What if?' questions you might like to apply to your business - or which might prompt a reaction from your audience if used as part of a presentation:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What if...&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We throw out all our policies and procedures and make up the rules as we go along?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We all stopped bothering to turn up in the morning?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Whenever we get a piece of advice, we do the opposite?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Paradoxes&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"How wonderful that we've met with a paradox. Now we have hope of making some progress."&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(Niels Bohr, physicist)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Paradoxes can be a great source of inspiration. Von Oech writes 'the very act of seeing the paradox is at the crux of creative thinking - the ability to entertain two different, often contradictory notions at the same time'. For comics the bringing together of these different or contradictory ideas is often the source of their jokes.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Some paradoxes for you to mull over:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"If you can remember the sixties, then you weren't there"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(Timothy Leary)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"We can't leave the haphazard to chance"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(N. F. Simpson)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"I wouldn not care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as a member"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(Groucho Marx)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Challenge the Rules!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stand-up comedians are very good at challenging 'rules' - often through asking 'why' questions. They'll identify an absurd aspect of everyday behaviour then ask "Why do we do that?" They'll also be willing to slay sacred cows (after all, they make great steaks!). The role of the comic is often to think the unthinkable and say the unsayable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So - what if you started doing more of this in your business presentations? You'd certainly stimulate a reaction!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Steve Amos&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;January 2008&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-1735229945733326628?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.satc.org.uk' title='Unlocking Creativity'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/1735229945733326628/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=1735229945733326628' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1735229945733326628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1735229945733326628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/01/unlocking-creativity.html' title='Unlocking Creativity'/><author><name>Steve Amos</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-5137904274030389971</id><published>2008-01-21T09:38:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-23T04:17:39.228-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What is Charisma?</title><content type='html'>What is charisma?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Often, when discussing leadership, the subject of charisma comes up. Do leaders need to be charismatic? If so, is it something you can learn?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Cambridge dictionary defines charisma as 'a special power which some people possess naturally which makes them able to influence other people and attract their attention and admiration.' Saying people use it 'naturally' may suggest you have to be born with it, is this true?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well-known leaders such as Ghandi or Churchill are often cited as leaders with charisma, yet we could all probably name others who are very successful but seemingly quite ordinary. So how can you be a leader who is able to influence other people and able to attract their attention and admiration?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Something that helps is being clear about your operating values, the principles by which you live your life and conduct yourself as a leader. Having a strong set of positive values means you are more likely to have a clear sense of self, be grounded and have a framework for decision-making. This strong sense of self is also very likely to be communicated to those around you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another factor that is often present with charismatic leaders is a willingness and ability to take a genuine interest in those around them. Charismatic leaders reach out to others and show a real interest. In that way there appears to be an increase in energy when they engage with others. Ineffectual leaders on the other hand, often have little impact on the energy of those around or at worst, even drag energy levels down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are of course other aspects that can contribute to a leader's ability to influence and gain respect. Each leader can develop a style that 'fits' with them as individuals as well as meeting the needs of the organisation. This is where leadership training programmes and \ or coaching can make a real difference. Having an opportunity to explore individual strengths, values and style can lead to a real growth in leadership effectiveness and that is likely to translate into better results all round.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-5137904274030389971?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.arietta.co.uk' title='What is Charisma?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/5137904274030389971/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=5137904274030389971' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5137904274030389971'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/5137904274030389971'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/01/what-is-charisma.html' title='What is Charisma?'/><author><name>Debbie Moore</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp1.blogger.com/_Q3nhW3rIfnE/R5TDGFH_03I/AAAAAAAAAAQ/yxU60T1VN2A/S220/DSC03152.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-7944595215744557084</id><published>2008-01-17T06:12:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-17T06:15:55.720-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='women'/><title type='text'>Women in Business</title><content type='html'>Did you know that although women represent almost half the workforce, studies have revealed that they reach management positions in less than 64% of UK companies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have recently become a mentor for the women's mentoring network, based in the SE under the auspices of SEEDA. The aim is to encourage women to tackle issues at work and at home that might be holding them back. These issues can be many and varied as I know from the training we do. So I am looking forward to working with these women to help them make the most of themselves!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See our new Women's training programme launching in Feb!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-7944595215744557084?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/training/women_in_business.htm' title='Women in Business'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/7944595215744557084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=7944595215744557084' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7944595215744557084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/7944595215744557084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/01/women-in-business.html' title='Women in Business'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-1261806660364289612</id><published>2008-01-14T08:06:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-14T08:08:43.779-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='training'/><title type='text'>Why do experiential training?</title><content type='html'>We are sometimes asked "Why do you do experiential training? Isn't training in the classroom just as good?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We do Experiential Training because it involves all the learning skills: listening, watching and doing which in turn lead to:&lt;br /&gt;· Better communications at all levels&lt;br /&gt;· An understanding of working together to achieve a specific end result&lt;br /&gt;· A common language to develop across the team based on the experience&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These in turn will lead to:&lt;br /&gt;· Better rapport between managers and others&lt;br /&gt;· A development in sensory acuity – improving awareness of their own senses and others&lt;br /&gt;· Outcome orientation – switching attention to what you want to achieve and away from reasons why it “won’t work”.&lt;br /&gt;· Behavioural flexibility – enhancing the ability to recognise how to change behaviour, both in themselves and in others&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8561528652088334553-1261806660364289612?l=trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.jamberry.co.uk/about_jamberry.htm' title='Why do experiential training?'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/feeds/1261806660364289612/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8561528652088334553&amp;postID=1261806660364289612' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1261806660364289612'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8561528652088334553/posts/default/1261806660364289612'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://trainingsoutheast.blogspot.com/2008/01/why-do-experiential-training.html' title='Why do experiential training?'/><author><name>Berry Winter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12276827270440420016</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_8LDDDRqIlKQ/TEmoJyIQg6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/DauCh2SE1O4/S220/berry10.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8561528652088334553.post-376136238059108140</id><published>2008-01-10T06:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-10T08:32:18.735-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Health and Safety'/><title type='text'>Corporate Manslaughter and Corporate Homicide Act</title><content type='html'>The Corporate Manslaughter and Corporate Homicide Act comes into force on the 6th April 2008. Are we all ready?&lt;br /&gt;The Act makes provision for a new offence of corporate manslaughter and for this to apply to companies and other incorporated bodies, Government departments and similar bodies, police forces and certain unincorporated associations.&lt;br /&gt;Prior to this legislation it was possible for a corporate body, such as a company, to be prosecuted for a wide range of criminal offences, including manslaughter. To be guilty of the common law offence of gross negligence manslaughter, a company had to be in gross breach of a duty of care owed to the victim. The prosecution of a company for manslaughter by gross negligence was often referred to as "corporate manslaughter". As the law stood, before a company could be convicted of manslaughter, a "directing mind" of the organisation (that is, a senior individual who could be said to embody the company in his actions and decisions) also had to be guilty of the offence. This is known as the identification principle. Crown bodies (those organisations that are legally a part of the Crown, such as Government departments) could not be prosecuted for criminal offences under the doctrine of Crown immunity. In addition, many Crown bodies, such as Government departments, do not have a separate legal identity for the purposes of a prosecution.&lt;br /&gt;Therefore it was extreemely difficult to actually have a sussecful procecution in this matter.&lt;br /&gt;The new offence builds on key aspects of the common law offence of gross negligence manslaughter in England and Wales and Northern Ireland. However, rather than being contingent on the guilt of one or more individuals, liability for the new offence depends on a finding of gross negligence in the way in which the activities of the organisation are run. In summary, the offence is committed where, in particular circumstances, an organisation owes a duty to take reasonable care for a person's safety and the way in which activities of the organisation have been managed or organised amounts to a gross breach of that duty and causes the person's death. How the activities were managed or organised by senior management must be a substantial element of the gross breach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The elements of the new offence are:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;The organisation must owe a "relevant duty of care" to the victim.&lt;br /&gt;The organisation must be in breach of that duty of care as a result of the way in which the activities of the organisation were managed or organised.&lt;br /&gt;The way in which the organisation's activities were managed or organised (referred to in these notes as "the management failure") must have caused the victim's death. The usual principles of causation in the criminal law will apply to determine this question. This means that the management failure need not have been the sole cause of death; it need only be a cause.&lt;br /&gt;The management failure must amount to a gross breach of the duty of care. The Act sets out the test for whether a particular breach is "gross". The test asks whether the conduct that constitutes the breach falls far below what could reasonably have been expected. The Act sets out a number of factors for the jury to take into account when considering this issue. There is no question of liability where the management of an activity includes reasonable safeguards and a death nonetheless occurs.&lt;br /&gt;To read the act in full go to: &lt;a href="http://www.opsi.gov.uk/acts/acts2007/en/ukpgaen_20070019_en_1"&gt;CORPORATE MANSLAUGHTER AND CORPORATE HOMICIDE ACT 2007&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In reallity, whilst this &lt;strong&gt;will&lt;/strong&gt; be hyped in the press and by many companies selling products, the basic requirements of managing Health &amp;amp; Safety in the workplace have not changed. If your current systems for the management of Risk (Health &amp;amp; Safety) in your organisations are robust then little will change or require to change. If on the other hand you do not know whether they are robust enough or are aware of weaknessess then now would be a good time to review them. This need not be a start from the begginning but at least &lt;a href="http://www.jamberry.co.uk/Health_and_Safety/Health_and_Safety.htm"&gt;an audit &lt;/a&gt;to determine where work may be required. 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